How can I get your attention – and keep it?
I’m not living in a fantasy world. I don’t expect everyone to find interest in my blogs and become followers, but I must admit it would be a wonderful thing if you did. I realize there are different strokes for different folks, which means you may not like my subject matter, my style of writing, the length of my writings, and blah, blah, blah…. That being said, I’d like to know how to get more of your attention, and that of your friends.
I recently re-read all the blogs I’ve ever written – all in one sitting – and you know what? I liked them; found ’em all enlightening, entertaining, and relevant – no matter the subject. Each one held my interest which is what made me want to read one right after the other.
Now, what I’d like you to do is revisit them as well – you know, refresh what you’ve already read or if you are new, acquaint yourself with my site.
When I created Writing is My Thang, the primary purpose was for me to write whatever came to this active mind of mine.
My goal, however, is a three-parter:
1) to see how you all respond and get your feedback, which is something I crave from you
2) to inspire you to work on your own goals whatever they may be. So many of you have expressed to me that you want to write. There is no magic remedy, “Just start writing. Do it.”
3) and finally, to get more than the 598 followers I currently have
Now, it’s perfectly fine to have followers who are only interested in reading and not responding. That’s cool; however, I’m interested in knowing your opinions on different subjects. Were you encouraged, entertained, informed, inspired or felt nothing at all? Aside from the nothing at all part, I have done all of those actions according to those of you who have ever responded.
Another thing. I want men!
Yes, I want men to find this site just as interesting as women do; interesting enough to pass on to others, and say to someone, “Hey, check out this blog that a friend of mine wrote.” Those words wouldn’t sound corny coming from the lips of men, right? If word is spread from men, that lets me know I got a good thing going here.
Right now, I have over 400 Facebook friends, but not all are followers. How can I get all of you/them on board?
Here’s what I think about those not following, but not necessarily in this order though:
1. You don’t give a damn about my opinion
2. You knew nothing about me having a blog site
3. You don’t know what the heck a blog is
4. You haven’t been invited to join (I’ll need your e-mail address for that)
5. You may be a “short burst” type reader and find my scribes too long
If you know me well enough, you know I always ask, “Wait, what?” “Why?” “How?” “Explain to me like I’m 5 years old,” and my two favorites, “Hunh?” and “How do you spell that?” I’m a detail kinda gal. I want to know things. At times, I’m inappropriately nosey or childishly curious. If you’ve had an operation, I want to see the scar – and some of you have shown them to me because and again, I’m naturally curious; always asking, “Can I see?” If you have a boil on your body, I want to see it and then bust it! Yeah, yuck, I know, but hey, I can admit things like that. Some of you are shaking your heads in agreement and laughing because you’ve told me about your boils, saw my excitement and then gawked when I asked to bust it! If it wasn’t on your ass, you probably would’ve let me at it!
To bring my point home; it is not unusual at all for me to question my non-followers. Don’t get me wrong, I ain’t mad if you don’t follow me, I’m just curious as to why you don’t. I’m trying to improve this thing called Writing is My Thang. I don’t want it to be a regular ole blog site. I want you to get excited when you hear or see that title.
I can’t leave without saying this: You know what I appreciate most? Your responses. To know that I’ve touched a nerve or your heart on any subject that warrants a reaction is a welcoming gesture to me. I can’t express the satisfaction I feel when you guys interact.
So, do me a favor, and go tell a friend.
I thank you.
As always its in the wee hours of the morning and I am unabl to sleep. Im flipping thru the televison stations and of course there is nothing worthwild watcing but stupid black sitcoms. Its when I take solice in your writing. Im sitting here shaking my head regarding your iquisitive nature regarding operation scars.
I enjoy your uplifting and spiritual style if writing along with the erotica you express so vividly. I wish two things from you. One you blog more frequently and two..Jurry uo with book number 2!
Aw, such nice words, girlfriend. I appreciate them and you taking time to write a comment (love you for it). I try not to boring even for the folks who are not into my style. I am aiming to write more frequently while finishing the book as well. Thanks again 🙂
Ok i read your blog whwn u first showed me since then i honestly dont know where to go or when to go. I received an email….a longgg tillie email that you like responses do i just go somewhere to ck. Or get notif I ed when a new blog is there also how do u pull whole blog up to reread…
Hi Joanie. When I write a blog, you should get an e-mail. You can respond from the blog itself just like you did on this one. If you go to writingismythang.com, you’ll see all the blogs I’ve written. See, you got this, Joanie! I’m proud of you.
First, let me say your blogs are always interesting, fun, and insightful! 👍🏾
However, I usually start, get interrupted by life calling… I go back later to finish… Sooo sometimes they get a little long (your recent book preview for example). I do plan to go back & reread soon. I prefer reading on my computer, not my phone so it may take a few days. 😊
I promise to comment more often even if it is days late.
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Thanks, cousin! I appreciate your honesty and I look forward to reading your response as well. I know the chapter was a bit longer, but after all it is an entire chapter. Take your time and enjoy it! 🙂
Hey Tillie, my girl forever!!! I live your writing and your mind. You inspire me more than you know and I have began writing. Go Tillie!!! I’m one of your biggest fans!!
That should say love
Thanks so much, Kenya! You inspire me as well with your always-positive posts. I love that you are seriously into living a healthy lifestyle and that you’ve gone back to school! Continue to following me, my friend!
Girl!!!! I enjoy reading your blogs. I know yow will be rewarded honey it’s coming.😊
Aw, thanks so much Kia! You are truly my girl. Keep reading and pass the word along! I love you for it!
Yo MaTil, I’m always interested in what you’re saying, thinking, even if you never called me back. Keep ’em coming. Date: Sun, 25 Oct 2015 00:39:36 +0000 To: email@example.com
Slickster!! So, this is how I can get a response outta you, huh?! I miss you, kiddo! I will return the call – promise! Keep reading and responding!